I like to watch children at play. Their imaginations and curiosity are truly unlimited. They will fight fires as easily as they blow out birthday candles, dance like Cinderella at the prince’s ball, they stomp in rain puddles just to see how high water can splash, and at the end of the day feel like superheroes because theirs is a world of pure absolute joy, where ability and pleasure flawlessly click. Their true colors shine. That is, until they realize they are being watched. Suddenly the fire is bigger than the firefighter; Cinderella is afraid she will miss a dance step; puddle stomping becomes a cardinal sin because of the mess it may create. Ability and pleasure suddenly clash, and the superhero now is the one in need of being rescued. True colors that were shining a few moments ago have suddenly faded. What gives someone the right to cast shadows on the true colors of a child’s imagination? Ok, proper boundaries are necessa...