(this entry was originally posted June 18, 2014, at another blog site.) Life took an unexpected turn … I’m now the lady with cancer. I’m still sister/daughter/niece/aunt/friend/colleague. And now it’s different. I started chemo. Therefore, I receive attention I didn’t get before. I accept I have to slow down. A week ago I would take a book to Starbucks on a whim, and sip iced coffee for hours. I would spend time shopping for shoes, going from store to store, and end up not finding what I want. This week, I do my shopping in bed, online, with a bottle of water at my side. Getting out of bed means, well, getting out of bed. As much as I want my “last week” life, the vise grip pain in my legs, feet, tips of my toes, convinces me the Starbucks and mall shopping is so-last-week. I find myself dependent on others for tasks that only a week ago I was able to do on my own. It’s humbling in ways, and in other ways, well, I can get kind o...